I'm Beginning To See The Light.mp3

Everybody thinks that they know the secret, or have some particular advice on the best way to keep a marriage going, or their truth, on how to keep a marriage long-lasting.

Various medical experts have lessons, courses and even books to tell you how to save a marriage.

Isn't that a very vague question? How do you save a marriage?

It is that question itself which highlights the emotional behaviour between men and women and the types of people they are when it comes to how you deal with a relationship when it's starting to go wrong repeatedly.

Our marriage is crumbling. It is one argument away from divorce.

We have different roles in this marriage, but all I do is work every day. I get up early in the morning, come home, and repeat.

You aren't getting what you need out of the marriage. You're not getting emotional support, you're not getting a man that is present, and you're not having your needs met.

Tensions rise as we say what we don't mean, or we cannot communicate what we feel we are not receiving.

Giving and taking.

This goes deep into the psyche of the individuals. I don't believe that I'm doing anything wrong. I feel like I'm being criticized all the time. You believe your needs aren't being met and that the time is passing you by, for you to have a child.

One line breaks it.

"You're just like your father"

The very thing that I do not want to be.

This is a journey from the start of an argument to either a new beginning or the end.

Can I fix and repair our marriage?

If it's the man's responsibility because he's done wrong, will he fix it or will he refuse?

The choice and the saving is up to me. I either fix the marriage and regain my wife, or I lose my constant, and let it fade away, due to my own ignorance.

I have to make it right.

Until our next encounter 🔏📖

Donagon